When were we finally going to stop blaming and putting all the responsibility on the victim? It wasn't fair.
I need to tell you a secret. You have to promise you won't tell anybody. Promise? Okay. This is a little awkward, but--oh man, this is perhaps even a bit embarrassing. Geez Whizz... I'm a writer. Take a deep breath, I know you won't believe this, but... (checking over my shoulder to make sure no… Continue reading Whimsical, Wacky, Wonderful Wednesday #13! Today I Slipped in a “Weird” … But I Know You’ll Get The Wacky of it All￼
When someone makes jokes or derogatory remarks about themselves it can be funny, but at who's expense? It can also make others uncomfortable, be seen as compliment-fishing, or that someone just frikken doesn't know when to quit. Believe me when I say, the jokes and the self-shaming get real old, real fast. Come on people--start… Continue reading Stop it With all The Fat Ass Put Downs and Self Deprecating Behavior… It Seriously Isn’t Funny.