Auntie wants you to think about the way you chat with your friends and significant other. Sometimes, it's what's said that gets lost, misinterpreted, or flings unintended hurtful contempt that cuts deep, but other times, it what's not said.
Are one night stands more prevalent now? I'd have to say yes because of the anonymity and simplicity of the hook up. It's like a transaction rather than a date where two people move toward sex. With the hook-up it predetermined. I guess the whole thing with hooking-up is that it seems too easy.
All of this false rhetoric has created a terrible echo in her head as she constantly tells herself she's not good enough.