I suppose you can look at this as building the proverbial bucket list with the knowledge that time can be limited--whether by world happenings, illness, death, or circumstance.
Oh my, I searched out the front window everyday for zombies to start shlepping up the hill toward the house. The world was coming to an end, right?
You need to know that those around you can only do so much. They can listen, they can make suggestions, and they can love you, but they can’t do the hard work for you. That is completely up to you.