advice, advice to teens. Auntie advice, Auntie Says, Auntie Says..., Breaking Up, Dating, Faye Arcand, Faye E. Arcand, gaslighting, Mental healthDo You Gaslight Your Partner? What You Need to do to Change it! November 5, 2020November 5, 2020 Faye Arcand For me the definition of gaslighting makes me think of politicians, door-to-door salesmen, and leaders of Ponzi schemes. All, to me, can be a bit slimy, manipulative, selfish, and protective of only their best interests.