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Stop it With all The Fat Ass Put Downs and Self Deprecating Behavior… It Seriously Isn’t Funny.

When someone makes jokes or derogatory remarks about themselves it can be funny, but at who's expense? It can also make others uncomfortable, be seen as compliment-fishing, or that someone just frikken doesn't know when to quit. Believe me when I say, the jokes and the self-shaming get real old, real fast. Come on people--start… Continue reading Stop it With all The Fat Ass Put Downs and Self Deprecating Behavior… It Seriously Isn’t Funny.

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Divorce. A Loopy Brain. Resolutions. Why September is the Perfect Time to Hit the Reset Button

Happy New Year 2021 + 3/4 Many years ago, someone (nope, I don't know who) told me that more marriages break up in September than any other month of the year (is that true? idk.). This unknown person said that September was the perfect month because the fun of summer was complete, you're far enough… Continue reading Divorce. A Loopy Brain. Resolutions. Why September is the Perfect Time to Hit the Reset Button

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How to Gain Some Fresh Perspective on Your Hook-up Behavior

Are one night stands more prevalent now? I'd have to say yes because of the anonymity and simplicity of the hook up. It's like a transaction rather than a date where two people move toward sex. With the hook-up it predetermined. I guess the whole thing with hooking-up is that it seems too easy.