For any young person it's important to know you can support yourself both financially and and socially. IMO it's important to live alone and not only get to know yourself but build that strength of knowing your own capabilities.
Having any expectation of having to be "perfect" means you'll always fall short of the mark because you can't reach high enough--just a little bit more...just a little bit better...just a little bit longer... It never stops.
Is your fear based globally, in your community, in your own home…or maybe even in your own head? Does fear grip you when you watch YouTube or news casts? Does it creep in every morning as you’re opening your eyes? Is the fear external or internal? Do you fear for yourself or for others? Are you afraid of someone of another culture or language? Religion? Is it a question of being right? or left? Where does your fear come from?